Posted by the free man
On 07:30
Is lying in children of the most important problems faced by parents, and by placing them in a quandary about how to deal with this problem, consequently, some of the ways and tips to deal with the problem of lying in children: 1. Explain: When your child starts lying to people explain to him that he must give that up completely in public and private to the public or at home without rebuke or reprimand or punishment in the first times .. Must deal with this behavior realistically. 2. Suggested alternatives: you must give the child other ways to vent his anger .. You should try to distract the child proposal activity. 3. Be diligent: Maybe your child is lying, for example in the nursery .. Should clarify the above for supervisors on the care and agreement on the behavior of one in the deal. 4. Using the method of the stars: (described in detail in the stubborn child). Work lists all the love the child. . Value the child loves Star .. For example, a trip to the park = 20 star, go to the zoo = 12 star, buy a new game expensive = 30 star, buy a new game cheap = 20, 15 or 10 or 5 stars, bag Shipsey = 3 stars, a piece of candy = 6 or 5 or 4 or 3 stars depending on the value and price, go to the grandmother or uncle or uncle = 6, and stars ..... And . Must appreciate what he loves the child as important thing for him and for us or not depending on the value or price. . Work lists a leaf hanging on the refrigerator or sink, or door of the room or the side of the bed is written on each of them what he likes and the number of stars required to be collected. . Should not be given the child any of the things that have been appraised, but he loves the other hand which is to get the required number of stars. . When you do something good, or walked or acceptable or are required to put the child star in the list that wants to receive. . When a child's work unpleasant and unacceptable is deleted on a star or two stars by the offense committed by these irregularities and our subject at hand is to show tantrums in public or in private or at home. . Must not compromise in any way in the development of tolerance and the stars, deleted, or give something of the things that have been appraised (Malhish de time, Gaah time I hear talk, that is why my mind gambling calls them). . Sure that the child in the days and weeks I will totally ignore this system (er Alhbalh DVD, I do not Haml Keda never de nonsense), but the determination and not for the child what he wants never will convince him that the subject is very very keen on parents' implementation of the instructions, but imagine a child does not come out and play toy or get a new game or to visit his grandmother or uncle, or does not eat candy that must sooner or later, however, and follows the rules to get what he wants. Simple ways to punish the negative: When your child is lying in front of you or in front of knowledge or in the nursery, you must sign penalty be contentious for an hour and during this time do not speak to him or look at your to or implementation of any request for food or drink or not to respond to any question that has to tell him before the quarrel that the cause of strife is do well .. Or so .. Or release insults .. The next time will be a contentious two hours and three hours later, and so on .. If your child continues to do what not to do as well .. Or so ... Or imprisonment of the child must be lying in a room does not have any toys or computer or anything fun .. Must sit in the room with the child a parent to protect him from any abuse and prevent it from any act outside and in addition to the death strife, and should not be considered parents imprisonment is the punishment for them, but is for a child, but must not leave the child alone at all. . If your child continues to do what not to do as well .. Or so .. Should deprive the child from going out to parks or to visit relatives or buy new toys or new clothes or go on a trip with the school only once, and if repeated frequently the same deprivation condition to sit with the child at home, a parent, adding to the death penalty sentences of imprisonment and strife previous two years. Should not be different from the parents never on the implementation of the above and not argued in the front of the child and agree on the best way to follow with their child and that both understand that methods of punishment simple past are ways to refine and is not torture and that the goal is mutual understanding with the child and not to violence, revenge and sophistication in that, with an emphasis on what has already been mentioned that this child does not know exactly nothing about right and wrong, halal and haram and what should and what should not. There is a simple and easy if lying occurs intermittently can tell him that there is a chair punishment or carpet punishment, when the child's exercise of this behavior should be directed to sit on the throne of a particular and specific, or carpet a particular and specific and does not from the Holy never or move out of the carpet at all not yet the passage of time, and start half an hour and repeat the act if the time gradually increases to an hour and then two hours and then ... And so on. When to seek help? Rarely, this is a reference to the behavior problems the child has other psychological .. Consult a psychiatrist if: 1. Contrary to the behavior with social interactions. 2. If all else fails and Saúlk to make it stop lying. 3. If coupled with other behaviors of concern in children. 4. If it continues without stopping.
